Are Black Women Sex Toys for Asian men?
Sunday, October 9, 2011
One of the things that makes me shake my head and suck my teeth is the exotic sexual fantasy between black women and Asian guys. Don't misunderstand me, there's nothing wrong with sexual attraction. We're all adults and we all have sex BUT I'm not talking about normal (in my mind anyway) sexual attraction. I'm talking about having sex with someone of another race just because....their of another race.
So in one of the Asian Black Facebook groups I'm in, I saw a link this video (search for it on YouTube cause I'm NOT linking to it) and decided to check it out. Lets be real here people it clearly say porn but I was hoping for something witty and original since they were talking with clothes on :)
What I heard was SO upsetting. Now while they can talk about her getting the egg roll, and how she has one night stands (she's a porn star or something) all they want I was sicken when the conversation turn to why Asian men should be with black women.
WTF, porn people discussing the issue of Asian and black dating? First he's mostly with white women, second she's never been with an Asian guy ( as of the making of that video) WHAT THE HELL DO THEY KNOW ABOUT ASIAN AND BLACK COUPLES?!
To make matters worse then he starts pimping her out. I sat there in disbelief watching an asian man telling all of YouTube that this black women will sleep with you if you walk up to her and say "I wanna f*ck" And her dumb @ss just sat there nodding and agreeing!
Oh someone stop the madness. But wait there's more and here's the real kicker.
This video was posted in a group for asian men and black women by....wait for it...a black women....guess who commented on it....black women...guess what they had to say about the negative sexual image of the black women to asian men and the rest of the world watching this video.
Not. One. Damn. Word. Don't believe me?
Yeah. Like I said. Not. One. Damn Word.
This acceptance and silence of black women when it comes to negative sexual images is a serious torn in my side. It's hard to spread positive awareness when those in my camp are just helping the other damn side. *bangs fista on the table*
I'm all for everyone doing their thing and choosing how to live but there's a damn limit and I wish more black women would reach the limit with me. Black women are always complaining that they're being treated with no respect and just as sexual creatures but what do they have to say BEFORE that happens?
Time and time again I see some of them allowing it and even...it hurts my heart to even write this...encouraging it. I've personally seen black women allow men, especially Asian men to treat them as sexual play things. So now asian men think the stereotypes of black women are true and think things will go down (pun intended) like this with other black women...like me.
When I dated Asian men (along with other races) I've met men who tried that "but the other black women slept with me on the first date" line. Yeah that's where they get reeducated really quick. It's disappointing to see that some asian men don't really know anything about black women on a positive note...even sexually.
But after watching that video who's to blame for that?
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